Of the man ways to spice up things in the bedroom, incorporating dirty talk into your sex life is easily the cheapest and the simplest. Dirty talk, if done properly, can get you in the mood for sex and heighten sensations and feelings during actual sex.
Here are 6 Dirty Talk Tips on the bedroom:
1. Compliment your partner
Make sure they know you find them attractive and that they’re sexy. Tell your partner what you find attractive about them. If their curves make you get aroused, or it’s their lips that stirs your loins, be sure to tell them.
2. Don’t insult
The dirty talk should not be mistaken for a license to use derogatory words. You might offend your partner and kill the mood if you resort to offensive words such as “whore.”
3. Control your voice
There is a reason the term ‘bedroom voice’ came up. Your partner won’t find stimulating or erotic if you keep screaming at the top of your voice like a lunatic. Not even if you are saying that most attractive person you have ever laid your eyes on. Whisper sweet things into their ears.
Don’t let one person do all the talking. It’s supposed to be both ways.
5. Mention your partner’s name
You are talking to a human, mention their name once in a while. It creates a connection. It goes without saying that you shouldn’t get the name wrong. It
6. Be explicit
It’s dirty talk! Tell your partner what you want to be done to you and what you want to do to them in very clear terms.